Obnoxious Relatives

One of the worst parts about having obnoxious relatives is that you never really know if they are trying to be hurtful or helpful. To start out with I was lied to like most young people. I was told that if you went to college and got a degree that involved math you could get a good job. Well I got a science degree and have been unemployed for a while. I keep being told that I am over qualified or under qualified depending on the interview. Either way I am still unemployed and still actively looking for work. What doesn't help is that my relatives have no respect for my health problems, me as a person, or my qualifications. I have been told that I should work in food service despite being allergic to food. I should work at a grocery store despite having had that job before and kept getting sick while working. That I should work at a call center and sell credit cards. I did not go to college and get a degree just to work as a telemarketer. I know how much people swear at you over the phone and don't need the stress. I am however willing to do lab work, government work, office work, farm work, etc. I am willing to work hard just not sacrifice my health at the same time.